What to do with someone who won't go away: Ignore them!

There are just some people out there who just won't settle for "Goodbye," but rather they keep bugging the living daylights out of you because they can't properly let go. 

Some people don't get the gist of how dating goes.  If you don't feel like it's a match, move on, don't settle.  Why on earth would you make a life for yourself other than the one you want?

But there are those who want to settle for something, just something.  The Married or In A Relationship at once rather than at last.  There are some people out there who are wayyyy too clingy and cant let something that won't work out go. 

I don't call that pursuit of a mate, I call that settling and then making the other person miserable because you have to be miserable.  Misery loves company, but those of us who want balance in our lives don't want misery.  We want someone who has balance in their lives too.

So you had that first date, and you aren't feeling it.  What do you do?  You thank them for a nice time, and wish them luck.  What happens if they just won't go away?  Ignore the texts and phone calls, and be thankful they don't have your address.

If they keep bothering you, block their number, or put on the Caller ID "Do Not Answer- Name."

You have to find what works for you in order to get some peace and quiet.

The one thing you have to remember is be able to walk away with a clean conscious.  You don't have to be mean, you just simply aren't obligated to return a text or call after you have said your peace.  There is no need to "Go there."  Simply pack your little texting bag and get the hell out of there, and don't look back, no matter what.

If you are one of those who can't stop responding, then you need help, and it's not the help that a blog can satisfy. 

A lady makes sure to exit peacefully and with as little disruption to her life as possible, while saying goodbye to an uninteresting meeting.  If the person comes back with negative vibes, threats, or rude behavior, that's on them.  You don't have to respond.