Before the First Date: The Fast Lane (SLOW DOWN!!!)

Kind of having a fast lane moment.  The guy I'm having a first date with tonight, is asking all these very premature questions.  I've had to calm him down or back him down a few times already, but it's nothing lewd or whatever, it's putting the cart before the horse.

I feel like he got here:

and

While I'm here:

He's asked: "So, do you want me in your life?"

My mind is going: Wait, how did we get here? I haven't even met him yet? How do I know?

And if I tell him anything remotely to what he's asking me, he'll do this:

Please give me a minute to get my brain in line with my wants.  Let me meet you first to see if there is a possibility, not only physically, but if you fit in my world.